SBS Teas recently had the distinct honor of talking with and interviewing Author Darlene Fahl-Brittian. Darlene is the author of the unique and inspirational book
"Sipping Tea - Celebrating Me" Her book is about
tea, life, love, and healing with the God Force in our lives.
SBS: Darlene, tell me a little about yourself.
DFB: I am married, 17 years now, to a man that no matter what idea I come up with, his reaction is "okay Baby, let's do it!" What a blessing that is. We have two children, a 14-year-old son, a 12-year-old daughter, and a Bichon Frise. We live happily in Southern California. I was born and raised in the prairies of Saskatchewan, Canada, in the city of Saskatoon. I bet that rolls off your tongue easily!
SBS: How did you get into this particular field?
DFB: Purely by Divine Intervention. I stated one day "okay God, I am ready now, just let me know what I am to do now." In a world-wind of events, I attended my first World Tea Expo, back when it was the " Take Me 2 Tea Expo" and I was hooked. I wanted to know more, taste more, see more and BE more.
Tea was the perfect partner for meditation, and prayer, and quiet time of any sort. That is what I wanted to encourage people to do, to "take it easy", to "relax", to stop the world, if only for a few moments a day.
Tea is "steeped", and rich, in the tradition of reflection and contemplation. What could be more appropriate than
tea? Nothing, as far as I was concerned, but many billion before me, have thought the same thing too. I was not the first.
SBS: What made you decide to start writing?
DFB: We were putting together to sell a fundraiser, and I wanted to make the little gifts of
tea and
tea things that were special and personal. I began creating prayers to tie on the gifts. The buyer got to choose a prayer with their purchase. In the beginning the selection was limited but people were excited to find "just the right prayer" to make the gift special and unique. If the person they were buying for was experiencing
health challenges, they selected,
"Longevi-Tea", money concerns, "Prosperi-Tea",
sluggish or depressed, "Vitali-Tea",
struggle, "Difficul-Tea" etc. Half the fun was in selecting a prayer. Then, people started asking for specific prayers, "can you write me a prayer for peace, for a boyfriend, for forgiveness, stress," etc. So, I did, and when I had over 80, a good friend said "Darlene, you need to put these in a
book." That is when I knew I could make the prayers into a book. That is when everything "clicked".
SBS: What makes your book
Sipping Tea – Celebrating Me so unique?
DFB: I would have to say, the prayers, that is what makes this
book so unique. Yes, there are many books about tea, out there, and there are many books about spirituality. I am not the first to marry these two perfect partners, but, I believe I am the first to create an entire series of healing prayers to be enjoyed with a cup of tea.
SBS: What is your favorite prayer or passage in your
book and why?
DFB: My favorite prayer, right now, is Securi-Tea. I say, right now, because that could change, I am still creating new prayers.
Book Three will have the entire collection of over 100 healing prayers. My favorite chapter is, chapter nine,
"The Agony of the Leaves". A close runner-up, is, chapter eight, "Forgiveness - The Key." I woke up one morning with the computer analogy of the mind and brain. When it comes to computers, I am still in another decade, so I know, that did not come from me, that it came from WITHIN me.
SBS: What is your favorite
tea?
DFB: I love
oolongs. But, if I had to give up any of the others, I would be devastated. I will admit though, that I like my tea weak, those rich, full-bodied
black teas are just too strong for me. My palate is not ready for those, but, perhaps that will change too.
SBS: Describe the type of person you would like to reach with your message.
DFB: The person who is in pain, the one who is suffering, struggling, doubting and empty. My wish is that they will surrender their pain and give it to God. To know that they are not alone, that they are worthy, no matter what has transpired in their lives. That God tortures no one, and is always there in love, and not in judgment. And, of course, I want those that understand their journey, to sip and celebrate with me, read the prayers I have written in celebration of life and all that it entails.
SBS: What do you do to relax?
DFB: I am a
gardener, a
decorator and a
crafter. I like to make old and abandoned things beautiful and functional again. I like everything and everyone to have a second chance, a new purpose. I have a special rocking chair - it is also my prayer chair. My husband bought it for me when we were dating, it was already "old" back then, I have rocked both my
babies in it, and sometimes there were three of us on it. I sit in that chair, which now, has a few springs that have "sprung", and I am transported somewhere else - some place peaceful and blissful, and with a
cup of
tea, I know it is Heaven. I love my chair, I grew up in a house with several rocking chairs, and I have enjoyed just being in a chair that rocks since I was very young, that it is indeed very relaxing for me.
I have another special place I go to relax. At 45 years of age, I built myself a playhouse in my backyard. It is full of the things I love and cherish, as well as, many swap meet finds that now, have a new purpose. Most of the prayers were written in there. It has a very special energy all of its own. There is also has a small rocking chair in there.
SBS: Where do you see yourself and your
book series five years?
DFB: Within five years, I will have other
books in addition to the Tea Trilogy. There will be several adaptations from the Tea Trilogy, such as, a companion workbook from
Sipping Tea - Celebrating Me, and it will also be a Day Workshop. I will have visited many tea plantations, and have attended all the certification classes available, and met numerous tea masters. I will have several meditation
CD's including some
weightloss meditation CD's. The prayers will be available individually in a number of formats, such as, cards, bookmarks, and magnets in the shape of a teacup with the prayer written on the cup. I will be a keynote speaker at many events, I will continue to do the educational tea seminars that I currently facilitate. I will be hired by companies to do Customer Appreciation Teas and Employee Appreciation Teas. I will continue to encourage people to incorporate tea into their individual spiritual practices and to find their own sense of inner peace while sipping tea. Did I mention that I will have met Oprah Winfrey and she will have every one of my books? I will also leave a lot of room for God because after Oprah, there is only God.
SBS: Darlene, is there anything else you would like our readers to know about you?
I am flexible, wherever this journey takes me, I go willingly. I am open to all things tea, all things God, and all good things.
Born in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada author Darlene Fahl-Brittian, began her career in the 1980's in the restaurant industry as a Director of Training. Her career took her to every major city in Western Canada. Her specialty was opening new restaurants. Later, Darlene went to Florida to complete her degree in Hospitality Management where she met an active- duty naval officer. They were married three years later, and moved to San Diego in 1990. After having two babies in two years, in my mid-thirties, she snapped out of the decadence of the 80's really quick. That was the beginning of a huge transformation for her. She knew there had to be something more, but what? After searching for sometime, Darlene then opened a retail angel gift shop, which she operated for most of the 1990's. Still searching for something more, Darlene took her search inward in 2001. It began by slowing down, staying home, decorating and landscaping her home. In 2003, "I told God I was ready, and here I am". Darlene is ready for whatever may happen next.
Pick up an autographed copy of Darlene's amazing book
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